The function DELETE_CONV is a parameterized conversion for reducing finite
sets of the form {t1;...;tn} DELETE t, where the term t and the
elements of {t1;...;tn} are of some base type ty.  The first argument to
DELETE_CONV is expected to be a conversion that decides equality between
values of the base type ty.  Given an equation e1 = e2, where e1 and
e2 are terms of type ty, this conversion should return the theorem 
|- (e1 = e2) = T or the theorem |- (e1 = e2) = F, as appropriate.
Given such a conversion conv, the function DELETE_CONV returns a
conversion that maps a term of the form {t1;...;tn} DELETE t to the
theorem 
   |- {t1;...;tn} DELETE t = {ti;...;tj}
   |- (ti = t) = F, ..., |- (tj = t) = F